A shockwave went
through my family the day my cousin Anna opened a chic erotic shop in town.
Some people, like my aunt, tried to cover it up by saying Anna and her husband
had " become franchisers ". That wasn't a lie but not exactly the
whole truth either. It all became clear to everyone the day the invitations for
the opening hit the doormats with a figurative loud bang.
I was pleasantly
surprised, I often like it when things are a bit "different". So I
took some friends and colleagues to the opening festivities and met quite a few
family members there. Some shy , giggly or clearly uncomfortable. Others
unexpectedly interested and curious and going through the shelving as if it
were an exclusive exhibition in a trendy museum.
I observed Anna
selling her products and listened to her talking in detail about sex and erotic
equipment with ease as if she was Nigella Lawson in person promoting her
cooking and favorite kitchen utensils.
Lots could be
learned for mental health care from the
openness of my cousin. She inspired me to get the topic of sexual side effects
of medication higher on the agenda.
Back at work my
colleagues and I made a checklist for physical health to be used at care
evaluations. Sexual side effects of medication was one of the topics and now
much harder to neglect . And we encouraged colleagues to talk about it more.
There are many
different types of psychotropic medications and they may cause a range of sexual
side effects like decreased libido, erectile- or ejaculation dysfunction for
men and decreased lubrication for women. For both men and women, the quality of sensation may be less and the time it takes
to reach an orgasm can be prolonged or completely impossible . Some medications
are less likely to cause trouble. And some people may not experience any of the
sexual side effects at all..
Sexual side
effects can have a negative impact on lives and relationships. That makes it
important to encourage and enable patients to speak about it.
People who are well informed about these side effects are often better prepared and more likely to comply with treatment. They know that side effects often decrease in time. But if not , a medication change,adjustment or additional medication can help to overcome these troubles.
It's important that mental
health professionals learn to discuss this subject more. It may take courage to
overcome our own shyness. But there are many cases in which a solution can be
found and lives can be improved. That’s definitely
worth the effort .